Question: WTF is sex magic?!
Answer: Using your orgasm to manifest some sh*t!
Your gonna masturbate anyways - might as well use that orgasm to bring your desires into real life!
Seriously: It can't hurt *AND* - new hobby alert!
Let's break it down a little further.
"Sex magic is a spiritual practice that uses sexual desire to manifest tangible effect in the physical world. One of the most powerful experiences that we have as human beings is orgasmic energy, and if we can pair it with intent, then we can direct the most powerful manifesting force available on earth."
-Baba Dez Nichols and Kamala Devi
Sexual Healing: The Shaman Method of Sex Magic
SIMPLE SEX MAGIC FOR BEGINNERS
1: Identify your desire. What do you want to bring into reality?
A new car?
A raise at work?
A rainbow-haired troll from the 90s?
Cool. Once you've identified your manifestation, get REALLY detailed as far as HOW IT FEELS to have it.
-What it feels like to SIT in the car. Where are you driving? How does the interior feel? The steering wheel on your fingers?
-The feeling of excitement when your new $ paycheck hits your bank account. Are you going to spend or save this new extra money? What are you saving it for? What exactly will you spend it on?
-Where are you going to put the troll? In your bathroom? Glue it to your car dashboard? How tall is it? Are you going to name it?? If so, what? What does it feel like every time you look at it?
AGAIN: GET INTO THE FEELING OF HAVING IT.
THE TINY DETAILS.
Envision your desire this specific way and REMEMBER THAT. This scene will be your primary focus ***every time you orgasm and unleash the desire into the Universe***.
2. Acknowledge any concerns or doubts you have about receiving your intention. Should you ask for a million dollars on your first try? You CAN, but don't set yourself up for disappointment. Your desire/manifestation should walk the line between attainable and a *little* scary/outside of your comfort zone.
3: During masturbation, practice the art of SLOW sex. Don't rush to the finish! The point is to build up as much orgasmic energy as possible, for as long as possible, before releasing it with your intention. This is where breathing techniques are your BFF. Try arousing yourself until the edge of climax 4 times. Stop, breathe it out, proceed. 4th time's a charm - when you let yourself orgasm, call back the 'scene' of your intention. Go through those feelings of having it as the wave of orgasmic pleasure washes over you. The trick is to build up as much power in your orgasmic energy as humanly possible - like, if the Care Bear Stare was an X-rated orgasm being blasted out into the ether.
4. Hang out in the afterglow of your orgasm for a few minutes and focus on gratitude for what you are calling into your life. Again, feel the feelings of having it and be thankful for it *already* being in your life.
5. Repeat daily or bi-weekly, keeping the same intention/vision until you receive your manifestation.
There are a ton of rituals that can be found online - incorporating things like black salt and dragon's blood (yes, we shit you not) - but the thing that activates your actual magic, aside from the power or orgasmic energy, is your intention.
There is no right or wrong way to master orgasmic manifestation, as long as those two components exist.
Now get out there and OM it up, bbs!